Your Words: Fertilizer or Coffin Nails?

Your Words: Fertilizer or Coffin Nails?

Words: Fertilizer or Coffin Nails? Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never break me. – Childhood rhyme      Did you ever sing that song about sticks-and-stones after someone insulted you? We both know that’s not true, don’t we? Words are...
5 Practical Ways to Help Someone With a Funeral

5 Practical Ways to Help Someone With a Funeral

I hate funerals. I’ve conducted hundreds of them while I was a minister at a church and not one person in attendance ever wanted to be there. Our family recently laid our 90-year-old mother to rest and none of us wanted to be there, either. Funerals are awkward and...
How To Help Someone In a Time of Grief

How To Help Someone In a Time of Grief

Author’s note:  This is from a previous post that was well received by readers and, in light of the recent national tragedies in the Boston Marathon and Oklahoma City tornado, I thought it was timely to repost.  It is very helpless to watch the collapsing of...
How To Help Someone In a Time of Grief

How To Help Someone in a Time of Grief

Author’s note:  This is from a previous post that was well received by readers and, in light of the recent national tragedies in the Boston Marathon and Oklahoma City tornado, I thought it was timely to repost.  It is very helpless to watch the collapsing of...