1. No Whinin’
There were plenty of opportunities in the following days to complain, but no one did. Each time a person would start to complain, they would mutter no whinin’ and the rest of the group would chuckle. It sounded silly; but it worked. When I began to lead international mission teams, I invoked Tony’s rule and mimicked his soft southern drawl with his no whinin’ rule. It is also one of my top five parenting rules. Here are a few things I’ve learned about whiners:- Whiners are like fingernails screeching on chalkboard
- Whiners can ruin the mood for the entire group
- Whiners sow seeds of discontent that create more whiners
- Whiners create distrust because they usually complain about people
- Whiners cause people to dislike them and then they wonder why
- Whiners drain co-workers of motivation and enthusiasm
- Whiners- if left unchecked- can single-handledly destroy the morale of an office or a team
- Create a culture and set the expectation that whining in considered childish
- Don’t give into their demands; you’ll live to regret it; if the child in the checkout line is whinin’ for candy and gets it, he’ll whine for car when he’s a teen
- Challenge the whiner to provide his or her own solution
- Ignore them
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