Your Words: Fertilizer or Coffin Nails?

Your Words: Fertilizer or Coffin Nails?

Words: Fertilizer or Coffin Nails? Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never break me. – Childhood rhyme      Did you ever sing that song about sticks-and-stones after someone insulted you? We both know that's not true, don't we? Words are either...

A New Twist to the 5 Ws and How of Writing

A New Twist to the 5 Ws and How of Writing

Let's put a new twist on the standard who, what, when, where, why and how questions that writers are supposed to answer and approach it from the context of our motivation for writing. Why are you writing? To whom are your writing? How do you tell the story? What tools...

Never Argue With Someone Who Buys Ink by the Barrel

Never Argue With Someone Who Buys Ink by the Barrel

"One of the best pieces of advice I was ever given was never to argue with someone who buys ink by the barrel." - Floyd Hammer Writing stuff down matters and it matters a lot. The original quote to never quarrel with a man who buys ink by the barrel came from...

The Gift of Words

The Gift of Words

I wrote a poem for my first grandchild, Cailyn Joy McNary, and read it to her last night. She's snuggled her seven-year-old body beside me on the couch and I began to read. (She the one on the right) She came into my world one day With skin as soft springtime air A...

Why Your Story Matters to the World

You’ve been knocked down a time or two in life, haven’t you? What made you get back up? What is the most crushing blow you’ve ever received? Bad news about your health? Someone walk out on you? Your best friend betray you? A trusted employee take all your money? How...

What Part of The Story Are You?

What Part of The Story Are You?

"Papa Rick?" my six-year-old granddaughter K.K. asked, "What part of the story am I?" I like phrases that suddenly arrive then stick to my insides for a few days like a double-stacked peanut butter and jelly sandwich. The latest phrase was a gift from a little girl...

Writing Your Way Out of a Difficult Circumstance

Writing Your Way Out of a Difficult Circumstance

No one has the power to take away your ability to interpret your own circumstances.  -  Dr. Vincent Amanor-Bouda, Kansas State University  If you were not the person neck deep in your difficult circumstance right now, what advice would you give yourself to come out on...